According to the New Zealand Stuff website (February 2017), the New Zealand Business and Innovation Department released data show that in the last 2016 years, due to online marriage friends cheated, New Zealand lost at least 20 million New Zealand dollars throughout the year. So, this data and the past 2015 compared to the growth of more than doubled. To this end, New Zealand psychologist Lee Chisolm said: “The rise of online fraud cases, mainly because: the liars are aimed at the online group of single groups, and then dressed as sweetheart (sweetheart), pretending to make friends with the Internet, The victim’s emotional trust, and ultimately, and then a variety of means to cheat money .”
For many single people in New Zealand, in the search for the other half of love, most of the same choice of the network this channel. However, with the attendant is: the network of marriage dancers flooding. The And this network of marriage fraud is also known as: “sweet scam”. Saying that this kind of hateful sweetheart scammers not only make the deceased’s feelings hurt, at the same time, may also make the deceased lost huge amounts of money.
Once in New Zealand’s famous talk show “60 Minutes”, a victim of a “sweetheart” scam gave her an experience of being cheated. Saying that the victim is a solitary white woman, people to middle age, she was in the cause and wealth after the harvest, but it is feeling: long night without sleep a hunchback heart for the king pull! So, the woman set foot on the network to find love journey. Soon afterwards, she was captured by a man who claimed to be living in London, and then the man sent his picture to him, and he looked: handsome and charming, and it was a “high richer”. As a result, the fierce battle half of the ladies deeply into the “love sweetheart” fabricated network, once again to once never met the “sweetheart” to pay the money. In this way, the lady and never met the “sweetheart” in the process of communication, even lost more than ten thousand new currency, when she realized that “deceived”, and that “sweetheart” is completely disappeared The The Later, the case was New Zealand and the United Kingdom police joint detection, did not expect is: the so-called “sweetheart” is actually a fraud from the Nigerian group. According to the information published by the police, now active in New Zealand, Australia, Britain and other countries online “sweetheart liar” mostly from Nigeria, and these men and women from Nigeria (or criminal gangs) day and night lurking in the major wedding dating sites , Opportunistic capture “love” who. (Perhaps, British gas is white horse prince is waiting for an opportunity to hunt the network “sweetheart crook”?)
So, take a look at the British “sweetheart scam” report. 58-year-old British Hunter, in December 2008 joined a British dating site, and later, he met on the Internet called a “rose” of the Nigerian women, with the passage of time, the feelings of the two more and more The more “hot”. Then, Hunter should be asked by the roses to help “rose” to the UK, for which Hunt had to go for the rose. During this period, Hunter borrowed, overdraft, plus re-mortgage their own house, etc., to August 2009, Hunter even owed up to 82,000 pounds of debt. In the end, Hunter was forced by the debt of God, in despair, he came to the high-speed train jumped off the tracks. The To death, poor Hunter did not figure out his love of “Rose” in the end how beautiful, because he had never seen the “rose” the true capacity. Afterwards, according to the investigation of the Hunter case of the police said: from Hunt left the last words and documents, he had been aware of his death when the fooled.
And then look at the British police announced a network of sweetheart fraud case: a British woman through the network and a man to establish a love relationship, the other claim to be a British soldier in Afghanistan. Then, the “soldier” to the British lady for money, said to buy a satellite phone, on the grounds that: he has a satellite phone, the two will be able to each other at any time. Then, the infatuated British woman will be generous for their “sweetheart”. The final outcome is: the British lady was loved by their own “sweetheart” cheated scarred – from love to money.
Online “sweetheart liar” who in the end have adopted those deceptive trick? According to the victim, the first thing is “sexually provocative e-mail warm-up”, that is, “sweetheart liar” before the money, usually send some full of love, sex tease e-mail (or SMS) as a “warm-up” Then, to create (or make up) some touching emotional stories to win each other’s sympathy, for example, that they are orphans, through the struggle to have today’s success, and so on. Then, after obtaining the victim’s emotional trust, opportunistic fraudulent money.
In fact, the “sweetheart liar” use “money excuse” is nothing less than: want to meet but need money to buy tickets; visa; family sick need money to hospital; there is a particularly good investment opportunity is the shortcomings of working capital of. The You might be wondering: why is this pediatric reason, how can i be fooled? And the anti-fraud expert, “British Metropolitan Police” police officer Tom Craig said: In his handling of the Internet dating fraud cases, the victims have lawyers, bankers, self-made monopoly, but only No one is a “fool”.
What do you know? The end of the network, is love you? Or love your credit card?
Of course, not because of “sweetheart liar” exists, not online friends, saying that the pay has to pay. But the truth is that criminals are everywhere. So, in the online dating, we must improve the alertness, the only way to make these sweetheart crooks have no holes to drill, is not it?
Perhaps, the following points on the online dating can help a little help.
1) Do not disclose too many personal circumstances, especially the address, telephone, whereabouts;
2) Do not mention your own money;
3) the other side to mention the money, immediately raise vigilance;
4) do not send money to anyone;
5) slowly develop the relationship, the liar no time wasted time;
6) Find a real dating site, such as wealthymatch.org OkCupid Tender
7) Remember: perfect to the incredible people and things, usually also not credible, ask yourself, this world has a perfect person and things?